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Today, we're gonna be talking about what to do when a guy is acting disinterested. This applies to any kind of disinterest: it could be on a date, through text, it could be that the guy in class is not paying attention to you anymore, it could be that he's not treating you the way you want to be treated, it could be that he's not sitting close enough or he's not being affectionate enough. If he's not giving you anything that you want from him, this applies.
Naturally, our instinct when a person is acting disinterested is to take a step forward. The reason why is that we feel that emotional distance from them and so it causes us to start chasing.
Think back in your life when you've been around with somebody who doesn't like you, you could sense the energy and you could sort of sense that there's a little barrier between you and that person, right? And so it inspires you to start chasing. The truth of the matter is that when you show more interest, that causes you to push the person away and you lose your power because by wanting more of their attention (and seeking it), you pretty much show your card.
What you need to do if somebody's showing you disinterest is to just double down. If the guy that you're with isn't being affectionate with you, you double it and you get cold. Sometimes, people are playing games with you and sometimes they're causing you to just wanna chase and the solution for that is by giving them the taste of their own medicine. If they really like you, they'll say "Holy shit, I'm losing this person. Let me show interest.".
The only solution for when somebody's showing you disinterest is to pull away and let them come after you. Your insecurities will inspire you to do the opposite so don't be tempted. Pull away, that's the only way you deal with those kinds of situations.
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